Phone sex is a unique form of masturbation in that you really aren’t alone. Sure, physically you’ve only got your hand to touch your junk, but you are speaking to another live person over the phone. That ability to hear someone else having a great time alongside you is part of the beauty that is phone sex. It can be a challenge, however, to juggle the masturbation, the phone-holding, and the dirty-talking. That’s where masturbation toys come in. Women seem to far outnumber men in the sex toys market, but there are so many great sex toys out there that men should try! These toys not only feel great, but help you enjoy the phone sex experience a little bit more by taking some of the manual labor off of your plate.
Prostate Massager
If you don’t know, a prostate massager does exactly what it sounds like it does. While you are engaging in some juicy phone sex, you can simultaneously use your prostate massager to help you get off. Prostate milking has become a really popular way for men to masturbate with more and more men admitting how much they love their prostate massaged! And why not? It’s a totally sensitive area that responds really well to sexual stimulation.
*Side-note: As a phone sex operator, I get tons of requests from men who love to talk about their fantasies over the phone regarding how they enjoy their prostates massaged!
Vibrator
A male vibrator might also be known as a head-teaser. These vibrators can be used all over the body (did you know that your nipples are capable of having their own orgasm? Why not use the vibrator there!), but most men use them to tease the head of their shafts. This is helpful while having phone sex or erotic conversation because it adds another layer of sensation to the entire process. Who wouldn’t want some smooth vibrations to be happening while having amazing phone sex?
Vibrating Cock Ring
Speaking of good vibrations, some men opt for a cock ring for their toy of choice. This little ring not only provides tension over your male part, but it also sends orgasmic vibrations to it as well. If you’re looking for a more hands-free approach to phone sex masturbation or even a hand-aid, this is a good option for you. I have clients who can get distracted by their own technique and miss out on enjoying their paid-for phone sex experience. Use some additional aid by investing in a vibrating cock ring.
Dildo
It’s no secret that men can achieve an orgasm through anal stimulation. Some women can too, but it’s not the majority. This secret power that men have is not something that should be ignored! Men who have never purchased a dildo or have considered stimulating themselves anally can sometimes tense up at the idea of even looking at a dildo. I am here to tell you, as a phone sex operator who hears fantasies all day and night, that it’s totally 100%. normal and healthy to explore that area. With that in mind, go pick out a dildo that you think would satisfy your urges and desires!
Fleshlight
Here’s another one for men who like to masturbate hands-free. I consider the fleshlight to be one of the perfect toys to combine with phone sex because it really does do all the work for you. A fleshlight is a toy that’s meant to mimic a blowjob, and from what I hear – it works spectacularly. If you love fantasizing about oral sex, know you’re going to bring it up with your phone sex operator, or know that it will come up when having phone sex with a partner, a fleshlight will be one of the best investments you make in yourself. It totally brings the blowjob fantasy to life… especially when you combine it with some wet and juicy lubricant!
Vibrating Sleeve
This magical sleeve is a vibrator that you use to cover most of your shaft while using it. As you’ve probably guessed, this vibrating sleeve does in fact vibrate. It’s another toy that will do most of the work for you while you sit back and enjoy your phone sex ride! Men tend to love a vibrating sleeve because it provides sensations to a larger surface area than a regular vibrator or just a tip massager. This is one you’ll have to test out for yourself to see if you like it!
Lubricant
I brought it up earlier, but it’s worth mentioning again: Lubricant is amazing. Phone sex is all about the imagination and trying to bring a fantasy to life. But great sex is never dry sex. Lubricant adds that hot wet layer of realness to whatever fantasy you want to engage in. And lubricants are amazing when combined with a sex toy. There are different types of lube but you’ll just want to make sure you grab one that is gentle on your skin, one that you aren’t allergic to, and one that is safe to use with whatever toy you choose to bring to your solo phone sex party.
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