Relationships are tricky and so is sex, so why not give yourself the best shot at an all-around happy, involved, evolved, satisfying sex life and romantic relationship? Yes, relationships are wonderful. Yes, being able to share your life and yourself with somebody else is a beautiful thing, but that doesn’t mean that it does not work. Too many times we romanticize this idea of a perfect relationship with prince/princess charming, but more times than not it turns out to be yet another night where words are left unsaid and you are left unpleased in the bedroom. But WHY? Why not invest your time in getting to know not only your partner but also yourself? Why not say, “Hey, this is what I need more of,” instead of faking yet another orgasm and then running off to the bathroom to get the job done? In a world where timid is how we were raised, dare to stand up and speak up for your relationship, (both in and out of the bedroom); all you have to do is pick up that phone in order to realize just how much this often intimidating method of communication can help the longevity of your relationship…amongst other things….
An Outlet
Everyone needs an oulet. Let phone sex be your sexual outlet. You can simultaneously take off your big boy pants while also being more adult, and more present, than ever. After all of the stress and worry that is modern-day living, you deserve to shake it off by shaking uncontrollably from a life-changing orgasm. Phone sex can be what football can be to a kid that doesn’t have a great home life. Yes, it may be intimidating at first, but once you get in there and realize how much you’re growing and learning, not only as an individual but now as a team, you just can’t get enough of it.
Longevity In The Bedroom
Do you know that most women in a heterosexual relationship don’t orgasm regularly while having sex? Do you also know that 97.82% of men don’t think of foreplay as a necessity and would rather just cut to the chase?…. Okay, we may have made that second one up, but we stand by the first one! Plus, far too often men don’t think of foreplay as necessary. However, ask a woman and she will most likely say that foreplay is absolutely essential in order to get to that take-your-breath-away orgasm you have been aiming for…or any orgasm for that matter – but let’s set our aims high here! As long as you follow through with the plan, we don’t see that being an issue. In any case, this is sure to teach your man a thing or two about foreplay seeing as he can’t physically be there to touch you. That brings us to our next point….
Communication Is Key
All you have are your words. You are practically forced to communicate with one another in order to achieve a common goal, which is really a great team-building exercise if you think about it! Plus, a lack of communication in the bedroom accounts for most of the issues, just as a lack of communication/not understanding how to communicate with your partner within your relationship is most likely the reason for whatever issues you have been having. This can aid you in repairing your relationship or even prevent you from having communication issues down the line.
Satisfaction For You And Me!
This one is pretty self-explanatory. If you’re not able to cum during phone sex….there may be some underlying issues you have to address with your partner. If your partner can’t find it within themself to be there for you – if your partner doesn’t WANT to be there for you and help you along while you achieve a moment of bliss, maybe it’s time to start thinking about grabbing yourself a different partner.
Vulnerability!