Ever since I became a PSO, a couple of things have become very clear to me: women call in a lot more than you would think, people can be just as shy on the phone as they are in person, and couples can really, (and do really,) benefit from calling in. Think about the best sex you have ever had. Chances are, you were comfortable sharing your wants and needs with that person. You were able to both verbalize exactly what you needed from the other person and, in turn, you were able to achieve sexual bliss together. To have a strong sexual connection is one thing; to feel both comfortable with sharing your thoughts with your partner along with confident enough to talk dirty to them and spice up your sex life when the time comes…..that’s a tall order. I am well aware that opening up is not easy, especially when in a setting as vulnerable as one that involves someone else feeling your naked body, scanning it with their eyes. Especially when in a setting as vulnerable as one that involves you voicing your sexual fantasies and becoming the O Queen that you were always meant to be. Remember, this is as much for you as it is for him. Don’t ever disregard your need to get off just to fulfill his needs. We love a confident woman who is constantly learning how to embrace her sexuality. And yes, you can absolutely continue on this journey if you are in a partnership! We have a feeling that your man will be here for it…
Not All In
If you want to spice up your sex life with a little threesome action, but don’t want to fully commit to inviting someone into your bedroom first, calling into a phone sex line might be the perfect option for you. There is zero commitment; you can hang up any time that you want….or you could call back and we could explore our relationship further. Which brings me to….
You Are In Control
That’s right. You are in control. I am here for you, to support you and help you along this journey. You call the shots, so go in with a little confidence!
Dirty Talk Practice
Dirty talk can be daunting, especially if you’re shy. Being able to practice with your partner and another person on the line who does this day in and day out, who is on the other side of the phone to fulfill people’s fantasies through narrative, is going to guide you on your journey of becoming the dirty talking goddess of your generation. You will barely even have to touch him after that tongue of yours gets going.
Improve Your Time As A Couple
As a couple, as stated above, communication is key. If you are able to break down the awkwardness that surrounds sexy time and start voicing exactly what you want, you are bound to have a better sex life. Most people are unfulfilled when it comes to their bedroom play with their partners simply because we were taught not to talk of such things. Now, being the adults that we are, we know we were led down the wrong path. The most empowering thing and the best thing you can do for your relationship is just go for it. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Plus, we will have a great time. I guarantee it.