If you’re reading this article, you might be considering the awesome profession of being a phone sex operator. As a PSO myself, I can tell you that the job is awesome. The hours are flexible and you can totally have fun doing it! But, while this is the case, deciding to be a phone sex operator is not an easy choice! Some people simply aren’t well suited for the job, and it is obviously important to find that out sooner rather than later. So, if you are considering being a phone sex operator but are on the fence, you might what to make sure that you have the qualities I’ve listed below!
You’re a hard worker
Phone sex work isn’t an easy gig. It actually requires quite a bit of hard work. With that comes a sense of discipline, which is very important. Whether you are working for a company in their office, or working from home, you need to have enough discipline and drive to truly make a living doing this. People who aren’t successful in the industry are almost always those who don’t have a strong work ethic.
You’re open-minded
As a phone sex operator, you are about to hear about people’s innermost fantasies. These are things that they may not have shared with anyone else in their lives, and they are looking to you for guidance through those things they might consider to be secrets. If you act as if you are repelled or turned off by anything a client has to say, you simply aren’t doing your job. You must have an open mind and make everyone feel comfortable enough to share this part of their world with you!
You’re sexual
This is sex work. You are working in a field that requires a degree of sexuality in order to perform properly. If you aren’t a sexual person, this job isn’t going to work for you. Some people think that they can fake it, but your clients are going to be able to tell if you don’t have a strong sex drive. The best phone sex operators get turned on with their clients and have fun doing their job!
You’re a good actress
Most clients call in expecting to find someone who is going to live up to their fantasies and expectations. Now, their fantasies might be something that isn’t totally within you, and that is ok! You will need to brush up on some acting skills to make it work for close clients. There are requests for everything from milfs, to babysitters, to fictional characters and beyond. If you are a good actress, you’ll be able to fall into those characters seamlessly. You’ll also be great at simulating sex and orgasms, which is equally important.
You’ve got a great imagination
Similar to needing to be a great actress, you also need to have an active imagination. Phone sex experience are heightened when an operator knows how to bring the fantasy to life. This could mean adding sound effects (such as a bed frame knocking) or adding in unique situations to the imagined scenario. You’ll need to be a smart cookie and very creative to do this successfully.
You’ve got a space and time to work
You need to have a nice space and a ton of time to do your work properly. You can’t have your children around or a dog barking in the background of your calls. Like any other job, you need to have an adequate and quiet office!