As a phone sex operator myself, I am the first person to tell you that I love having phone sex on a very regular basis. I mean, it’s my job, my life, my routine! Phone sex is an incredible way to explore sexual or dirty fantasies or even fill up some time when you want to get sexy with someone else on the phone while masturbating. I am here for all of it; however, I do know that because it’s so great, it can also cause some issues. Like other wonderful things like chocolate, sex, wine, sexting, etc., phone sex can be addictive.
If you are reading this article, it’s probably because you are wondering if you are obsessed with phone sex to an unhealthy degree. Maybe you call very frequently or have trouble getting aroused without it. I am no expert here and I won’t pretend to be, but upon doing a bunch of research and following through with some due diligence for the sake and integrity of my job, I can tell you that those things don’t necessarily mean that you have a problem.
From my research, it seems that ‘an obsession becoming a problem’ can be determined when something that you can’t stop yourself from doing is having causing harm in your life. For example, people drink all the time. Some people even drink on a daily basis… as in, they have a glass of wine before bed. So, do those people have drinking problems? That’s not for me to determine, but it seems to me that one glass of wine is an issue if it is causing issues in their lives or if they are hurting their bodies. If someone is drinking and it’s causing them to miss work or hurting their relationships, then I’d say that’s not good. If it’s not making their life worse, then who is to say?
So where do you and phone sex fit in? You’ll have to ask yourself if phone sex is a positive or a negative thing in your life, beyond the enjoyment you receive from it. Here’s the thing, exploring your sexual fantasies through something harmless and fun like phone sex is a good thing. If you are calling in so often that you are missing important engagements in your life, or if you can’t wait to leave situations so that you can call an operator, or if you are spending all of your money on phone sex…you might want to re-evaluate its position in your life. At the end of the day, this is something you’ll have to decide for yourself. My general rule of thumb is that if it causes you joy without hurting yourself or anyone else, you are in the clear!
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