Phone sex may be the safest kind of sex there is. Essentially, you’re seducing the brain of the other person on the phone while masturbating by yourself. Over the phone, you can be anyone and try any sexual fantasy without leaving your house or putting on pants. In fact, the whole point of phone sex is to take your pants off! Phone sex is a great way to explore your kinks and secret desires, either with your current partner, through a phone chatline, or with a phone sex operator. There’s no shame in your game, however you like to play. If you’re new to phone sex, we’re here to help you make the moment sexy and fun instead of awkward and sweaty.
How to ask for phone sex
If you are considering trying phone sex but feel afraid to ask your significant other, don’t worry. You’re not alone. Phone sex is something that may make you giggle at first, but after some consideration, it doesn’t feel like a laughing matter. For long distance relationships especially, phone sex is a great way to keep the spark alive! It’s also a great way to introduce something new and exciting to the relationship. There are a few ways to bring up the idea of phone sex to your partner. The obvious one is to straight up tell them that it’s something you are interested in, and ask if they’d like to try. If that seems too daunting, you can also pretend that the original idea wasn’t your own. For example, you can tell them that you heard a friend talking about how amazing phone sex was and that you’d like to try. Or, you watched a movie and the phone sex scene turned you on. Either way, if you ask your partner in a way that is respectful, you can do no wrong. There’s no shame in wanting to try out something new. You might be surprised how willing and eager your partner may be to try phone sex. Perhaps they have been afraid to bring it up to you.
How to prep
Practice alone
QUICK TIP: TALK IT OUT TO YOURSELF SO YOU GET USED TO THE LINGO AND FLOW!
If you’re nervous about the dirty talk itself and are afraid of the phone sex being awkward, you can practice by yourself in your room or your car. It’ll feel silly at first to talk dirty to yourself, but eventually it will get you comfortable with the language, pace, and semantics involved in the art of dirty talk. If you practice saying the words out loud, alone, it will feel more natural when it comes time to say them over the phone.
Schedule the Phone Sex
QUICK TIP: SCHEDULE IT AT A TIME WHEN YOU ARE BOTH FREE AND RELAXED
It’s important to schedule phone sex with your partner in advance. This way, nobody is caught off guard. Additionally, nobody is left feeling unsatisfied and horny if their partner happens to not have the time or be in the mood for phone sex. Pick a time at which each of you can relax and focus solely on this. This means you don’t have work to do, the kids are with a sitter, and you are not distracted by anything else going on in your life! Phone sex is about being in the moment.
Prepare your space and yourself
QUICK TIP: CLEAN UP, SHOWER, AND LIGHT CANDLES,
When you are actually ready to have phone sex, you’ll want to prep your phone, your space, and yourself! Most simply, you’ll want to make sure your phone is charged and that your space (most likely your bedroom or bathroom) is clean. More than that, you’ll want to set the mood of your space to sensual. You can do this by lighting candles, dimming the lights, filling up a bubble bath, or playing some smooth jazz background music. You may be wondering why you’d need a clean sensual for phone sex if your partner isn’t even going to see it, but setting the space is something you are doing to turn yourself on.
Turn yourself on
QUICK TIP: PUT ON SOME SEXY UNDERWEAR
Speaking of turning yourself on, you’ll want to get in the nude or get into some sexy lingerie/boxers. You’ll want to put on whatever makes you feel the hottest, because feeling sexy is the key to amazing phone sex!
Buy Toys
Toys are by no means mandatory, but they certainly help (especially for females). It’s been proven that men reach an orgasm much quicker than women do. It has also widely known that women get off more quickly when they use toys to externally stimulate themselves. When a couple engages in phone sex, it’s a nice way to keep the pace in synch (if a woman uses a toy while her male partner does not). Toys will also bring up a range of topics for phone sex partners to talk about. You can describe how you are using the toy, what you are doing with the toy, or how the toy feels. More than that, toys are just awesome!
Buy Bluetooth Toys
Bluetooth/app-controlled toys are perfect for phone sex because they allow partners who are physically apart to still be able to control the pleasure for their partners directly from their smart phones. Psychologically, it helps people in long distance relationships feel closer to one anther in a very tangible way. They know that the orgasm of their partner depends on the way they handle the bluetooth toy, which is a huge turn on in itself. Bluetooth toys add an entirely new dimension to phone sex and are incredibly pleasurable.
Phone Sex Tips to Avoid Awkwardness and Keep it Hot
Know your audience
QUICK TIP: THINK ABOUT WHAT YOUR PARTNER LIKES
Without completely overthinking, you’ll want to consider the person you are talking to. Is it someone you’ve known for a long time or a fling? Is it a man or a woman? Chances are, if you are having phone sex with this person, you’ve had physical sex with this person. You know what turns them on. More than that, if you are speaking to a man, keep in mind that men are more visual creatures than women. Be as descriptive as possible, draw upon sexy images, and moan when you feel like it. Conversely, if you are talking to a woman, keep in mind that her extreme emotional intelligence can cause her mind to go from sexy to over analytical. Compliment the features of hers that drive you wild. It’ll turn you on and keep her head in the game.
Use ‘I want’ Phrases
QUICK TIP: TELL YOUR PARTNER WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO DO TO YOU
If you are concerned about exactly what to say, you can start by telling your partner exactly what you would want them to do to you; however, rather than saying “I would want you to…” simply say, “I want you to…” This will put you and your partner in the present rather than the hypothetical, giving you each a better chance at imagining that the scenario is actually happening in real life. Also, the demanding nature of an ‘I want’ phrase can be a huge turn on!
Start slow and simple: Use foreplay
QUICK TIP: EASE INTO IT
Great phone sex, like great sex, requires a bit of foreplay to make it extra hot. Rather than diving into the actual ‘sex’ part of phone sex, start slow. In fact, don’t even dive into the sexual right away. If you are in a long distance relationship, you can start the conversation by telling your lover how much you miss them. Then, you describe what you physically miss about them. It’s about slowly inching your way to the top and keeping the flame alive as long as possible. Imagine what foreplay would be in a real life situation. Would it involve neck kissing? A massage? Start where you normally would in the bedroom when describing sex over the phone.
Learn the dirty words encyclopedia
QUICK TIP: GET FAMILIAR WITH DIRTY TALK
Something about ‘penis’ and ‘vagina’ sounds too junior high sex education. Rather than using the biological terms, learn some of the hotter terms such as pussy or cock. Imagine what you could do to the other person in terms of verbs such as suck, lick, blow, touch, graze, etc. Become familiar with those words and use them throughout your conversation. Don’t try to be someone you aren’t, but steer clear of turning the conversation into an annual check up.
Touch yourself and talk about it
QUICK TIP: MASTURBATE AND TELL YOUR PARTNER ABOUT IT
Once you are getting hot and heavy into the conversation, you may want to start touching yourself or using a sex toy. As you are jacking off or rubbing your clit, talk to your partner about exactly what you are doing. The idea that you are giving yourself pleasure is something that is bound to turn your partner on. Additionally, ask your partner if they are also touching themselves and to describe it. It’s a nice way to bounce between the sexual fantasy and the reality of what is going on. It’s also a great thing to talk about during any sort of awkward pause.
Be descriptive and detailed
QUICK TIP: THE MORE DETAILED YOU ARE, THE HOTTER THE PHONE SEX IS
People are often most stimulated when they are presented with a visual cues. Why do you think porn is so popular? Due to the fact that there is a significant lack of visual stimulation during phone sex, you’re going to have to get pretty creative, detailed, and very specific. Rather than telling your phone sex partner you want him to ‘fuck you with his cock’ or you want her to ‘suck your balls,’ try describing each and every element of the situation you’re imagining. Use adverbs like slowly, aggressively, gently, and verbs like lick, suck, fuck. For example, ‘suck my balls’ can be: “I want you to slowly take your wet mouth and lick my throbbing balls with your pink tongue until I cum into your throat.” See what we mean? Adequate descriptions can be the difference between orgasm and no orgasm.
Role Play
QUICK TIP: PICK UP AN ALTER EGO
Role playing is a good way to abandon the nerves and break the ice. Adopting a new personality can help you ease into a situation that is a bit outside of your comfort zone. This is due to the fact that it’s easier to express vulnerability under the guise of a character or alter ego. That’s why so many famous performers adopt alter egos. Role playing with your partner can also be a nice way to ease into your sexual fantasies and perhaps even discover new fantasies you never knew you had! We suggest coming up with the role play characters before the call itself, so that the call feels natural from the get-go.
Laugh
QUICK TIP: ACKNOWLEDGE SILLY MOMENTS
One of the most important thing to remember while having phone sex is that is perfectly ok, and even encouraged, to have a sense of humor. Sometimes the nerves can get the best of us and simply laughing or acknowledging the silliness is a great way to break the tension without totally ruining the mood. It also shows your partner that you are on the same page in terms of comfort with the experience. While it breaks the fourth wall a bit and might shatter the smoke and mirrors for a moment, it’s much better to laugh off an awkward moment rather than ride it out.
Ask Questions
QUICK TIP: QUESTIONS GIVE A CONVERSATION MOMENTUM
Remember that phone sex is a dialogue, not a one man show! Asking questions during phone sex is a way to keep the conversation flowing. It also allows your partner to be with you in the experience every step of the way. The easiest question is to simply ask your partner what he/she is into and what he/she wants out of the experience. It will help you to understand what turns your partner on and it will allow you to formulate a tentative plan as to direction of the call.
Send Photos
QUICK TIP: USE TECHNOLOGY TO YOUR ADVANTAGE
If you feel comfortable enough with your partner to send intimate photos of yourself in action while on the call, you should totally go for it. Giving your partner that visual will help him/her feel closer to you. Additionally, it puts a very vivid image in your partner’s head for him/her to work with while he/she is working on himself/herself! Feel free to use technology to your advantage by sending sexy shots and spicy images!
Fantasize
QUICK TIP: DESCRIBE WHAT TURNS YOU ON
Do you and your partner have any kinky fantasies such as a cuckolding fantasy, a voyeurism fantasy, or a threesome fantasy? Phone sex is a safe way to explore your fetishes through your imagination. Fantasizing can also help you create and image in your mind that is vivid enough to describe in detail. Use your imagination! Remember that the entirety of the experience is based on what you are able to envision, make up, and bring to life. Let your mind explore freely. You may surprise yourself and reveal a fantasy you never even knew you had.
Compliment
QUICK TIP: ENCOURAGE AND STROKE YOUR PARTNER’S… EGO
In order to keep the heat of the conversation alive, you’ll want to occasionally tell your partners how fantastic they are. You can compliment their bodies or you can tell them that their descriptions are sending you over the edge. At the end of the day, everyone simply wants to feel like they’ve done a good job, were sexy, and were given enough sex in return. Complimenting can move your phone sex conversation into a volley of back-and-forths and is likely to bring momentum to any pregnant pause in dialog.
Check in
QUICK TIP: MAKE SURE YOUR PARTNER IS HAVING FUN
Every now and then, you can check in on your partner either by asking if they are enjoying themselves. For example, if your partner begins to pant and moan, you can urge them on by asking, “Oh, you like that baby? You like when I _______ you?” You can ask about the imagined action or the reality of them touching themselves. Either way, it gives your phone sex parter a chance to feel like you are there with them in the room.
Moan
QUICK TIP: MOANING IS SEXY
Phone sex is not the place to hold back any moans or groans. Moaning into the phone is the icing of phone sex. It’s juicy, stimulating, and will turn your partner on more than you probably realize. Moans give tangibility to the situation and make it feel more like sex than masturbation from miles away. It’s reassuring that whatever your partner is saying over the phone to you is working, and more than that, moans are scientifically proven to make people aroused.
Reminisce
QUICK TIP: THINK ABOUT SOME GREAT PAST SEXUAL EXPERIENCES
If you find yourself running out of things to talk about, drawing upon great throwbacks and old memories is a great way to bring the conversation back to a nice rhythm. Was there any time when you and your partner gave each other insane orgasms? Is there something that your partner always does that you live? Think back about a nice throwback and begin to describe what you liked about your partner during those moments, and what your partner was doing to give you pleasure.
Pillow talk
QUICK TIP: DON’T HANG UP RIGHT AFTER, TALK ABOUT IT
Once the phone sex is over, some nice pillow talk is recommended. It ties the experience into a nice bow and allows for you and your partner to talk about how the experience went for the both of you. You’ll learn what to do next time to make it even better, and you’ll also learn what you did this time that made it great for your partner. Conversely, you can express to your partner what you loved or disliked about the experience.
When you feel awkward
If phone sex only makes you feel awkward, you might not be as excited about it as your partner. Here are a few tips to help you relax and gain confidence, whether you’re talking to your long-time partner or a sexy stranger.
Have a plan before you call. You shouldn’t try to script yourself line by line — which won’t be practical unless your partner has a script too. But you can decide ahead of time what questions you’ll ask and what you’d like to happen.
Take a deep breath. When you’re not sure what to do, there’s a tendency to ramble or speak very fast. Now is the time to inhale deeply, then let it out. Keep taking deep breaths to keep yourself from rushing through the moment.
Slow down your speech. If you’re afraid your voice will waiver, slow down and lower your voice. It’s a great way to make yourself sound sexier, but it’s also a good way to calm your nerves, too.
Go ahead and laugh. Don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself if you misspeak or come up blank during phone sex. The other person on the phone may be feeling just as awkward, and you’ll help diffuse the tension.
Types of phone sex
Long Distance Relationship / Relationship
Phone sex within a relationship is the most intimate form of phone sex. Often, it is done between couples who are in a long distance relationship, but phone sex does not exclusively apply to LDRs! Some couples simply can’t get enough of each other and need to get it on in the moments when they are not in the same room, and who can blame them? This type of phone sex is unique in that the partners truly know each other and they are comfortable. It allows for couples to try new things and add a new dimension to their relationship. The fact that the couple knows each other so well may make it challenging for some couples to take it seriously; however, after the initial laughs you may share over it, you’ll more than likely be able to quickly get into a phone sex groove with one another. Couples who are in long distance relationships are encouraged to test out some bluetooth toys. If phone sex becomes a frequent, even necessary, occurrence, investing in some awesome remotely controlled toys is going to be totally worth it! Couples may use phone sex to introduce things they fantasize about trying or are scared to actually try in the bed room. It’s a nice way to ease into a more expandable sex life and test the waters within realms that may otherwise feel too taboo to try. Phone sex is a great way for couples to stay close, intimate, and try new things.
Sext first: Get yourself and your partner in the mood with some hot and heavy sexting first. Send (consensual) nudes. Send the dirty message that tells them exactly what you’d like to do to them. Type things you might not be able to say to get them excited about the phone conversation later.
Sexy memories: Not sure how to get started? Remind them of that sexy thing you did a few months or years ago. “Remember when we went skinny dipping?” or “I loved that time at the hotel in Vegas.”
Confess a sexy thought: If you’re having good IRL sex with your partner, you’ve certainly had a sexy thought or two about them. Start your phone sex experience by sharing one. “I love it when you wear those blue panties” or “Sometimes I want to bend you over the kitchen counter and make you come.”
Fantasize together: When you’re not looking at each other, sometimes it’s easy to confess your kinky fantasies. Even if you never act on them, it’s a great way to experience phone sex together. It can be a role play scenario or a kinky domination or submission fantasy. Don’t be shy and explore those fantasies with a lot less pressure.
Skype or Facetime: You wish you could see them while you’re apart, so here’s your opportunity. Now you can get naked together and get a visual of the action, too. Ask them to show you how they touch themselves or use a sex toy. Let them watch you, too. Few words will be needed when you can see each other. Spend time post-orgasm enjoying each other’s company. Now you can be sleepy and sweet with each other or you can start again with a new fantasy or sexy thought. The nice thing about phone sex in a relationship is that you can move from a sexual moment to a sweet moment without feeling awkward.
Fuckbuddy
People often love having phone sex with a fuckbuddy or a friend-with-benefits because they feel able to be sexually free. There is still some tension in the air, as opposed to speaking with a phone sex operator, which can add to the steaminess of the conversation. Likely, fuckbuddies know what the other is into, but don’t know each other on a deeply emotional level. This makes for some pretty hot and interesting phone sex. Using a fuckbuddy to test out phone sex is also a great way to get more comfortable with yourself sexually. After all, fuckbuddies are there for sexual experimentation. You can feel free to let loose and entertain new fantasies without and responsibility or repercussions on the relationship after the end of the call. The fact that phone sex partners know each other intimately allows for easy access to imagining dirty images and picturing their partner in sexual positions throughout the duration of the call.
Chat Line Phone Sex
Calling a phone sex chatline is a great way to meet someone new and have no-strings-attached fun. Basically you’re having phone sex with a stranger without the condoms and wondering where to put your hands. Not all chat lines are sexy, and not everyone on the line is looking for a phone hookup. But when you find someone who’s down for hot phone sex, make sure you do it right so you both have a good time.
Use your sexy voice, but don’t put on a fake voice or try to act unless you’re really good at it (as in award-winning good). A lower, huskier voice works best.
Ask questions about what they like, what they’re wearing, and what they want to do. Use their answers to start the conversation.
Let porn you’ve watched or erotica you’ve read inspire your conversation.
Get into the details. Describe exactly where you’re touching them and how. Tell them where your tongue is and how fast or slow you’re licking them.
Don’t rush through the moment. Buy extra minutes before you get started if that’s a concern. The last thing you want is for your call to be disconnected in the middle.
Use this as a confessional of a sexy guilty thing you want or you’ve done. You can be the naughty one who needs punishing or the naughty one who corrupts your chatline partner.
Share your kinks and fetishes, even if they’re just a fantasy right now. You may never talk to this person again so don’t worry about judgement.
As with any partner, listen to their reactions. If they’re not into it, switch subjects. If they are, find out how far you can go.
If it’s not working for you, end the call and find someone else to chat with.
Operator
Phone sex with an operator is the ultimate way to go about phone sex if you want to call all of the shots and don’t want to have to wonder what the person on the other end of the line is thinking. It’s literally a phone sex operator’s job to make the client feel comfortable, happy, and satisfied. If you’ve got a dirty fantasy that you aren’t sure if the world will accept, you can count on a phone sex operator to normalize your kinky thoughts and let you explore them in a way that is both safe and healthy. If you are deciding to have sex with a phone sex operator, go into it knowing that there is nothing to fear. Feel free to lay out exactly what you want to talk about before the call gets going so that your operator can satisfy your every need. If you call the Phone Sex Queen, she’ll be there for your sexual desires, no questions asked. If you are shy about sex in real life, phone sex can be a unique way to challenge your sexual or social anxiety and get yourself feeling familiar and comfortable with sexual terminology and ideas. You can also use phone sex to practice the art of dirty talk and eventually bring your new learned vocabulary into the bedroom for some steamy IRL fun!
Tell the operator what you want. No shame here. They’re a professional and won’t blink at whatever wild fantasy you have.
Consent is still important. No one has to do anything that is outside of their personal limits. Don’t try to force a phone sex operator to do something they don’t want to do. That’s never okay plus they can always hang up on you.
Admit when you’re nervous. They’ll help put you at ease and guide you a bit.
Ask questions just like you would with a partner or a stranger on a chatline. Your phone sex operator will play the part you want or they may surprise you with something you never expected to like.
Don’t be afraid to masturbate while you’re on the phone. It’s called phone sex for a reason. Getting off is the reason you called them.
Feel free to use phone sex operators to get comfortable with phone sex and learn what to say. This can help you later if you want to use a chatline or if you get into a relationship and want to try phone sex with a partner.
Try new things. Phone sex is a safe place to explore your fantasies, desires, kinks, and fetishes. It’s all conversation, after all. And with a phone sex operator who may know more about your fantasy than you do.
Phone Sex Kinks/Topics
Mutual masturbation
Masturbation together, either on each other or at the same time while engaging in phone sex.
Body Parts: Nipples, neck, lips, pussy, dick, ass, asshole
Addressing sexual body parts is an important element to good phone sex. What do you like teased the most? What do you enjoy most about your partner? Discuss licking, fucking, or touching those sensitive parts as a way to move the conversation forward.
Toys
Toys are encouraged during phone sex and can be described in detail. Turn on your partner by describing the vibrations of your toy and how it is making you feel while on the phone with him/her.
Sex dolls
Some people like to fantasize or play with sex dolls. This can easily be used to spice up a phone sex conversation. Additionally, you can pretend to be a doll for your partner and let him/her do anything he/she wants with your body!
Shower Sex
Wet and steamy… what could be better? People love to talk about shower sex because it’s a very slippery sexy way to bump and grind. The perks of talking about it on the phone rather than doing it in person have a lot to do with the dangerous nature of shower sex falls! However, if you and your partner both have waterproof phone cases, a shower could lend itself as an interesting location to have phone sex. Just try not to slip!
Panties/Lingerie/Briefs
Man, woman, or otherwise, if you are not in the nude during your phone sex call, you better be wearing some sexy underwear. Bring up the texture, size, color, and feel of your sexy undergarments to paint a delicious picture for your partner to imagine.
Cum
There are so many directions you can take when talking about cum to your partner. You can talk about your cum, their cum, when you’re about to cum, how you plan to make them cum, the texture, taste, smell, etc. The list is literally endless. It’s what we’re all here for in the end, so get to phone sexing about your cum!
Bedroom Food
Food is always an interesting twist to bring into the bedroom, imaginary or not. Bring up the tastes, smells, or textures of food to add to your fantasy if you want to sweeten it up. It might actually make your mouth water.
Oral Sex
A classic! In every way in which oral sex can be performed (blowjob, eating out, anilingus, etc.) there is so much to imagine, describe, and fantasize about. Think about your favorite thing about giving your partner a blowjob, or receiving some literally ass-kissing. Use your imagination to describe it in immense detail. It’s bound to turn you and your partner on!
Anal Sex
Ass play is always very fun when brought into the world of phone sex. Does your partner have a specifically sexy bum? Do you love giving or receiving anal sex? Add it to the phone sex mix!
Orgies
When having phone sex, the sky is the limit in terms of where the fantasy can go. You can even invent another person to join you in your imaginary rouse. This can be a celebrity, person you know, or total stranger. Allow you and your partner to interact with this mythical person or persons.
Pegging
Pegging is when you use a strap on to penetrate your partner. It’s a great tool for lesbian couples to enjoy penetration, but can be used by any phone sex pair!
Foot Fetish
Do you or your partner have a thing for feet? A foot fetish is a very common turn on for many people. You can discuss your stockings, socks, heels, toes, etc. Or, you can describe what you want to do to someones feet (such as suck their toes).
Role Play
Role playing is when you pretend to be someone else while engaging in sex. Phone sex partners can pretend to be a nurse and patient, long lost lovers, spies, teacher and student, etc. Some couples enjoy using role playing to ease into phone sex. It can be easier and sexier to play a role rather than diving in as themselves!
Cuckolding
Some people like to imagine that their lovers are having sex with other people in front of them. That is often described as cuckolding. It’s more common among men who want to see their wives fuck a big strong man, but it can be used within any pair of partners!
Bondage
Phone sex is a safe way to explore a bondage fantasy. Some phone sex partners go as far as to tie themselves up while on the phone and utilize bluetooth toys in order to bring the fantasy to life. If you love being tied up, or love tying your partner up, bondage is a fun element to bring into your phone sex world.
Dominance
For some people, being taken advantage of or taking advantage can be wildly hot in the bedroom. Dominance is a popular fetish in which one parter exercises a significantly larger amount of power over the other partner in the bedroom. Sometimes the dominant partner is referred to as Daddy, sir, madame, queen, etc. The submissive partner is completely at their will!
Urophilia
Urophilia is a sexual affinity to all things urine! Think golden showers, watching others urniate, or urinating while having an orgasm. If you love using urine in your sex life, but your partner is afraid to go for it in real life, phone sex is a great way to explore the fantasy. You can request that you listen to your partner urinate or describe scenarios in which urination occurs.
Voyeurism
Some people like to secretly watch others engage in sexual activity, or they enjoy being watched themselves! Phone sex pairs can pretend to engage in voyeurism. They can be onlookers of each other or even onlookers of other sexual partners/pairs.
Phone Sex Safety
Phone sex may not be like other forms of sex, since it’s essentially a better form of masturbation. But that doesn’t mean there aren’t safety concerns to consider. Consent is still an issue, and the whole point is for both of you to have a good time.
- Respect your partner’s boundaries. If they don’t want to discuss a topic, leave it alone and talk about something else.
- Stop when your partner says they’re uncomfortable or uninterested.
- Tell your partner if you’re not comfortable.
- Distinguish between a fantasy you want to try in real life versus a phone sex only fantasy. This is especially important when you’re having phone sex with someone you’ll see later. They may think you want to do that kinky, taboo thing in real life.
- Don’t demand anything from the other person unless they’re okay with it.
- Don’t try to tell a partner what to do unless they’re into that kind of power play.
- If you’re on a chatline, don’t share personal details until you’re comfortable. No one has to know your real name or phone number.
- Don’t give strangers your location or address.
Phone sex is a great way to experience dirty talk, try out a new kink, and get off without the pressure to get naked with someone. No need for condoms, birth control, or even pants! If the sound of someone’s voice is enough to turn you on, and you want to connect with new people or current partners in a new way, phone sex is easier than you realize.