You go online, pick out a number, grab your phone and call the phone sex line. Now what? Everybody’s experience calling a phone sex operator is going to differ, but for the most part you are all calling in order to reach the same goal: sexual satisfaction. In this day and age, sex is all around us all of the time, whether it be on a billboard you pass while driving down the highway, sitting in a R rated movie, picking up a magazine, going to the theatre…sex sells. Sex is a constant. You no longer have to discreetly go buy a playboy to get off. All you have to do is go on to one of the many free sites on the internet in order to see porn or read erotica. However, those outlets can be a little impersonal and will never fully cater to EXACTLY what you want and need. That’s why calling a phone sex line can be the perfect outlet for all of your lusty needs and fantasies, but what exactly should you talk about while calling one of these girls?
First of all, anything. You won’t be judged.
Just like a doctor has seen it all, these girls have surely heard it all…and then some! There is no need to be timid for fear of judgment or repercussions from your partner regarding your sexual fantasies. Your sexual fantasies won’t be judged. Remember, you can tell these girls as little or as much about yourself as you would like; that is what is so great about phone sex lines! Like we mentioned, other ways to get off can seem impersonal whereas this is more personal and specifically catered for you, but is made so that you can still stay hidden in the shadows. There is virtually NOTHING you can say that will shock these girls. They are professionals. This is what they do for a living, and they want you to be happy with their services. Of course, that doesn’t mean that they don’t have ANY boundaries, so if you think something may be TOO disturbing, (I am sure we can all imagine what kinds of things I am talking about,) as her whether or not she would be okay reenacting such a scenario.
Your Wildest Fantasies
This would be the time to fully explore all of your naughtiest fantasies. If you are too afraid to cue your partner into knowing what you want, this would be the time to try it out. If you are single and don’t feel like taking the risk of having a one-night-stand but still want to let your inner freak out, this would be the time. If you don’t want to put tons of effort into making your fantasy happen, (since a lot of them take careful planning,) and still want to get a thrill out of some sort of sexual experience, this would be the time to speak up and let the woman know exactly what you want her to say and do. Be forward. Be bold. And do not be ashamed.
What You’ve Been Dying To Try
Unleash your inner sex daemon by telling her exactly what you are too scared to try. Have you seen a BDSM porn video that peaked your interest? Explain what is going on in the video; explain the role of the man and woman and then get ready to role-play. Is there something that happens during the majority of your sexual encounters that you particularly love? Are there specific noises a woman makes that really turn you on? Do you enjoy being with two women at once/have you always want to have a threesome? Why not ask her to bring another girl onto the line and let your night get a little wild from the comfort of your own home? Has there always been a burning desire for you to get bent over and spanked? Tell her and let her improvise around the scenario. Remember, you are both finding the right “rhythm” for the conversation so it is up to you to let her know whether or not what she is saying/the noises she is making is working for you or not. Let her know. She will appreciate it and your money will be well spent. You don’t go to get a massage and not speak up if what they are doing doesn’t feel good. Use your voice. After all, that’s all you have when you are on the phone.
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