You and your partner have a long-distance relationship going, and we all know how trying those can be. A huge part of intimacy is engaging in physical touch with your partner, and we aren’t solely speaking sexually. For the purposes of this article, we ARE solely speaking sexually. Phone sex! You want to keep your other half hot for you and you want to have some hot phone sex time with your partner. That can be hard to do when you can’t see or touch your person on a regular basis. Desperate times call for desperate measures, so even though the internet can seem like a dauntingly dangerous and scary place to let your inhibitions go and let your freak flag fly via your birthday suit, you’ve got to do what you’ve got to do. So, what are the pros and cons of all of the different apps you can use to send those nudies that are so important to keeping phone sex with a partner alive? We’ve got the answers!
Sending nudes/videos
First of all, you need to decide what you are comfortable with. Maybe all of this will be outside of your comfort zone, but you have to notice how far outside of said comfort zone you are willing to go in order to please not only your partner but yourself. Love your body and want to show it off in the nude? Go for it all the way! Let this be exciting and thrilling, but also be cautious of who you are doing this naughty stuff with, because you don’t want any of your photos and/or videos ending up in the wrong hands. So….what do you think? Nudes or videos, nudes and videos…..We can’t help you there. All we can say is recording a video and sending it to your S.O. can be so scary for fear of being judged on how you look or how you are pleasing yourself, but you are your own worst critic. If you enjoyed yourself, they will enjoy watching you. Nudes are nice, but videos are where you turn your partner into a horny beast who will send you some EXTREMELY naughty content back. Consider taking the plunge but remember that nudes are always a nice addition as well.
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Texting
Texting is great because you can talk dirty via text message, send nudes and send videos. You really do have the option to have the best of both, (or in this case all three,) worlds. However, if you don’t implicitly trust your partner in crime, steer clear of this one! It is unfortunately and unbelievably easy for a text message to get into the wrong person’s hands. Sometimes simply by hitting “send” to the wrong person you screw yourself over. Aside from this, everything in iCloud is going to be available forever, and anything sent via electronic device is virtually indestructible. Whatever you send….you’re taking a risk. Aw hell, we say TAKE IT. Do it in the name of love and orgasms!!!
Snapchat
Snapchat is a great tool to use because you get to choose the duration in which the picture/video stays up for. Think of this as your go-to mini porn making photo session application. Have fun!
We say ditch the email. There is too much of a trail of evidence and also…who the hell emails/looks at nudes on email anymore? The last time we did that we were still having to type the www into the search bar …so early 2000s. Instead, just opt for texting. It is virtually the same thing but faster and more efficient.
DM
We say avoid the direct messaging. There are so many platforms your S.O. could accidentally post these messages/photos/videos to so why would you make it easier by taking out the middle man and immediately connecting your sensitive content to one of these apps? Don’t even think about it!
Facetime/Skype
We love Facetime/Skype for some naughty duo video time. This is the closest to being in-person because you are having an immediate exchange and can respond to what the other person is doing in the moment. It is the most intimate you are going to get and in our experience, this one is by far the most fun. An added bonus is the fact that, unless you have a devious little sucker on the other end of the camera, this private time is not being recorded and, therefore, cannot be sent, (accidentally or otherwise,) to anybody anywhere on the world wide web. Enjoy responsibly!