Calling a phone sex operator can seem like a fun idea, a good break from reality and a great way to get off without the chance of anything going wrong, (aka pregnancy,) and with minimal effort to find a good one night stand. Aside from dishing out a bit of cash, there is no losing when it comes to calling a phone sex line. But just like anything new, aside from being exciting it can be a little confusing or even a little bit daunting at times. What do you say? What does she say? Who starts the conversations? What am I allowed to say and what will make her hang up on me? After finding the phone sex line that you want to call, the rest is quite easy. It is time for you to sit back and enjoy. You are, after all, paying for their services. Before you do anything, you might want to read this list of what to expect when calling a phone sex operator for the first time.
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Be Prepared To Voice Your Desires
First and foremost, you are paying for this service so you might as well get what you want out of the experience. When you go in for a massage and the masseuse is focusing on your shoulders but your problem area is really closer to your lower back, do you just sit there or do you speak up and ask for what you want? EXACTLY. Every person calls the phone sex line for a different reason and there are a million fantasies to be explored. She is not a mind reader. You need to tell her what your wants and needs are so that she can give you the most bang for your buck. If you are shy, don’t hesitate to write down your fantasy beforehand so that you have it ready to go. And remember, she doesn’t know what you look like or who you are, so don’t feel embarrassed. Plus, just like your doctor has seen it all, we guarantee your phone sex operator has heard it all!
You’ll Likely Experience Small Talk
Before you get down and dirty, your operator may ask you a few questions to get you to relax. If this is something you want to participate in, then go right ahead. If not, you can always ask her to fast forward. However, if you are the kind of man who needs to take a little more time to get comfortable around a woman, don’t hesitate to extend the small talk for a bit. Even though you will be paying for this time, it is a small price to pay for having an enjoyable experience. Don’t hesitate to ask her some questions as well…just don’t try to get too personal with her! This is not a dating service, after all.
You’ll Need to Stay Present
What we mean by staying present is making sure that you are responding to her. Sometimes if you become too quiet she won’t know whether or not you are enjoying yourself. She can’t see your face so it is your responsibility to let her know whether or not what she is doing is working for you. If it is not, you should definitely let he know and then come up with a game plan together and try again!
Be Respectful
Like we said, you are paying for her services but that does not mean that it is a free-for-all. By all means explore your fantasies, but everyone has their limits and you need to respect hers. If she says no to something, simply say “Okay, how about we try X, Y AND Z instead?” It is okay to maneuver around what you what and what she is comfortable with in order to find a common ground where you can both be happy. Just because you are paying for her services does not mean that it is a free-for-all.