December 12, 2019 / Morgan Jean

Do’s and Don’ts When Calling a Phone Sex Operator

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So you have decided to call a phone sex operator. It is new, it is thrilling, and maybe just a little bit scary. You have picked up the phone dozens of times before and hung up before dialing. Maybe a couple of times your fingers inched their way to those buttons and dialed, but from the time she said, “Hello,” you were already hanging up the phone and weren’t sure why. Well, big boy, it is time to take that next step to become a man. You may be thinking, “Do I initiate the conversation? Does she initiate the conversation? How long is too long to talk to her? Do we start out with niceties or just skip to the dirty stuff? How dirty can I get? Can I say anything that I want? What is off-limits?” That is what we are going to be talking about today; what is okay and what is not okay to say when calling a phone sex line. Here are the do’s and don’ts of phone sex!

Let’s Talk About Sex Baby

Do: Talk about your innermost fantasies when you call a phone sex number. Your wants, your needs, your desires. Talk about what you want to do to them, what you want them to do to you. Indulge yourself. Remember, you are paying for anonymity and the ability to explore all facets of your sexual prowess. There is absolutely no need to hold back or get red in the face. You are who you want to be in this moment and you want what you want and you have the ability to go after it with no repercussions and no chance of an awkward run-in at the supermarket next week. You can be as explicit as you want. You can ask for exactly what you want in order to get off. Remember, you are paying. You’re the boss. Now act like it…unless what you want is for somebody else to take the reins, in which case, sit back and enjoy. Talking to a phone sex operator could very well be the first step into a newfound unabashed sexual freedom.

Do: Practice foreplay for that special lady who might be waiting right around the corner. We have heard it over and over again; confidence is sexy. Confidence is sexy. as. hell. A man who can take charge and not only walks the walk but talks the talk is very rare and very well-regarded throughout the sexually-active women of this world. Unfortunately, most men are too worried about what to say and afraid of embarrassing themselves, or simply don’t feel comfortable talking dirty to a woman, especially without some liquid courage. Unfortunately, that liquid courage can back up another liquid that is, well, kind of important in this scenario. *Wink wink.* Why not learn to be at ease with foreplay and become better at using your mouth in the bedroom? This could be the perfect schooling so that you can take your sex life to the next level if you let it be.

 

Let’s Talk About You and Me

Don’t: Ask them to divulge actual personal information in hopes of meeting up or taking this to a bedroom. Remember, this is a fantasy. This is a sexy voice on the other end of the phone that will talk dirty to you, with you and help put those hot and heavy images in your head so that you can enter into a porno of your very own.

Don’t: Be aggressive or rude. Think about it as if you were wining and dining a woman you had met. You want to keep her happy so that she gives it up, right? Well, the same goes for your phone sex operator. Show some respect and in return, you will get what you called for. Remember that you are talking to an actual human being, not a robot. They do have feelings. No, this does not mean you have to hold back sexually.

Nothing is off-limits as long as you remember to have a little bit of respect for your fellow human, so go for it.