Tips To Being Confident While Having Phone Sex

Contrary to popular belief, confidence can be manufactured. You’re don’t necessarily need to be born with it in order to possess it. The easiest way to get confident while doing something is to practice it over and over again. As a phone sex queen, I’ve had a lot of time to practice my craft and now it feels like second nature. But to many people out there, phone sex is pretty foreign. It’s not something people spend all day practicing. Because it’s so vulnerable and requires quite a bit of thought, it can throw even the most confident people for a loop when they try it out for themselves. But that’s why I am here to give you all the tips you need to be the boldest and most fun version of yourself when having phone sex.

Why is confidence important for good phone sex?

Confident phone sex means erotic conversation without second-guessing yourself. When you doubt yourself, especially in a sexual scenario, it makes your partner uncomfortable and that’s what leads to awkward phone sex. Why? Because confidence is one of the sexiest qualities on the planet. But when you’re trying so hard to not be awkward, you end up being even more awkward. That’s why I say the only way out is through when it comes to confident phone sex. What do I mean? I mean that you have to practice, you have to try new things, and you have to accept that it’s not going to be perfect all the time.

How to be more confident

Now, the moment you’ve been waiting for. I am giving you the tips you can take into your next phone sex session to sound as confident as possible. My biggest piece of advice? Fake it till you make it. These tips are your starting point for what to do and your only job is to unapologetically give them a shot, see if they work for you, and keep trying until it feels natural!

Tip: Acknowledge the awkward

If you are having phone sex with a long-distance partner or someone you’re in a relationship with, I suggest acknowledging that you don’t feel 100% comfortable yet. It’s ok to laugh when things feel strange or point out that something isn’t as hot as you want it to be. This is one of the best break-the-ice methods.

Tip: Feel sexy

Yes, easier said than done. But think about what makes you feel sexiest. If you feel hot, you’ll sound hot. Put on a sexy outfit, or lather your body in lotion and be nude. Light some candles and set the mood for yourself. Then, use your surroundings or body as inspiration for what you want to say.

Tip: Use your imagination

Phone sex is about creating an imagined intimate world with your partner. You have to paint that world with your words, so be as descriptive and imaginative as you can to bring the fantasy to life. Ask your partner what turns them on and incorporate that into the fantasies!