For some strange reason, people get all serious when they talk about phone sex. They act like it’s some weird forbidden fruit that they’re tempted to try but would cause great consequences. It’s just dirty talk on the phone people! I think it’s really important to remember that not every sexual situation has to be so serious. Yes, sex should be taken seriously in terms of consent and otherwise. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be light, bubbly, and fun! Phone sex exists so that people can express themselves and get sexual gratification out of it. I wanted to share some tips you can use to avoid awkward phone sex and have a grand old time!
Call a phone sex line:
You’re probably reading to find out how to have fun phone sex with a partner, and I am going to tell you all about that too. But calling a phone sex number can be great practice for the future. Imagine it this way: If you wanted to be better at basketball, wouldn’t you want LeBron James to coach you? That’s how it’ll feel by calling a phone sex line. You’re going to get on the phone with a real professional who will let you ask and try whatever you want!
Discuss your boundaries:
You’re not going to have fun if you’re discussing things that make you uncomfortable. That’s why it’s important to discuss your sexual boundaries (as it pertains to phone sex) before you have the call or right when you begin. This gets all that jazz out of the way so you can focus on pure pleasure and nothing more!
Dress sexy:
Some people think phone sex is all about what you say over the phone, but it’s equally about how you feel. If you’re in some sweaty pajamas, how do you expect to send those sexual vibes through a telephone? Get on that lingerie, hot boxers, or go completely nude. Dress the part so that you can exude that fun sexy energy that’ll be felt through the cell phone.
Acknowledge the awkward:
This is easier when you’re really close to the person you’re having phone sex with. I always think that if things start to get weird or awkward, it should be acknowledged so that you can both giggle and move on. Instead of building on awkwardness, it gives you a chance to start fresh. Plus, it’ll remove that tension and pressure newbies usually feel when having phone sex for the first time.
Feel free to laugh:
Hey, sometimes things are just silly! It’s ok to laugh during phone sex. In fact, I think it’s really sexy when couples are giggling while talking bout their dirtiest thoughts. It shows a level of intimacy and comfort that the two of you share. Don’t laugh at your partner of course. Remember that everyone participating in phone sex is pretty vulnerable and putting themselves out there!
By using these tips, you should be able to keep every phone sex session fun and breezy. It doesn’t have to be this intense love-making session over the phone. You can (and should) keep it light if you want to!