As we remain under quarantine, it’s becoming clearer and clearer that people need and value virtual forms of sex, like phone sex! It’s true that the millennial generation is glued to their phones, and so is the generation before them, but they are not the only people who know how (or could benefit from) exercising their rights to phone sex! That’s right, old people could use some phone sex too!
There are many rumors floating through the mill that suggest that older people aren’t sexual beings. I, personally, would like to put this to rest. As a phone sex operator, I hear from plenty of clients who are looking to get off. Some of whom actually tell me their age and they are on the older side. This might not be the biggest source of proof of sexuality in older people, but I’m just letting you know that it exists. I’m also not here to determine what constitutes someone to be ‘older.’ However, in my experience, older people enjoy sex just as much as anyone else!
In addition, there are plenty of phone sex fantasies that involve older women or older men. There are phone sex lines that you can call to request a ‘granny’ or someone who is on the older side. Most of these fantasies include some element of caring for another person. I suppose older people are better caregivers which is what makes that fantasy work. Some fantasies include older men who call and want to be referred to as ‘Daddy.’ Freud would likely have some very strong opinions about why these fantasies exist; however, I can surely tell you that they are flourishing and probably will until the end of time. There’s something very sexy about older people, and that won’t ever change.
Now that the older generations are falling into phone trends, they are also understanding how phones can relate to sex. There has been a sharp rise in recent years of older folks who are starting to enjoy sexting more and more. As they become used to technology, the ways in which it can influence their sex lives to begin to grow!
Of course, once the sexting starts, the video chatting and phone sex also can begin between older couples. There isn’t a ton of evidence to suggest that older folks are doing this (especially very elderly people because there aren’t many reasons as to why couples would be apart from each other if they are a retired pair), however, I think it could be a really fun and easy option for elderly couples or individuals to expand their sexual horizons.
Again, with growing familiarity with the way technology works, older age groups are finding themselves on dating apps. There actually is a lot of documentation confirming this, and even dating apps that are dedicated specifically to older people looking for love, or sex, or both. Of course, this is an interesting time to write about virtual affairs. As aforementioned, we are in this weird bubble of unprecedented quarantine times. Virtual love has never been more necessary than it is right now. It’s encouraging even more folks, of any age, to get on the phone for the sake of getting their jollies off.
Here’s why I think phone sex could be amazing for the older sex community. Like I mentioned, older people are sexual. However, there is truth to the idea that libido can dwindle as age rises. This doesn’t mean though that there’s an innate desire to be less sexual. It just means that there’s a little sexual hurdle for the older community. Phone sex is a safe way to experience sexuality and it’s also very easy on the body. As a phone sex operator, I know how powerful having agency over a sexual vocabulary can be. It can reignite sexual interest in people, give them confidence, and make them feel totally sexy.
Do I think there’s going to be a massive phone sex revolution for the older community? It’s probably not going to happen. However, it definitely should and would probably be really beneficial.