New Year, New Phone Sex Techniques

When you are ringing in the new year and bustling about trying to decide on your resolutions, one idea you should consider is how to change your phone sex style. You can do it simply by calling a new phone sex number and trying it out on a stranger, or you can implement these tips with a partner! A new year is a chance for a whole new you, and although this might not be the first thing that comes to mind, having phone sex is certainly one of those things that is a “use it or lose it” skill.

Know Your Worth (And Theirs)

People who are new to phone sex are often anxious, so throw your partner a bone! Tell them how much you value them. Likewise, make sure that you are with a partner that appreciates you and who you really are. Don’t jump into phone sex just to make the other person happy. Make sure that this is more of a two-way street and that you both want to be involved. If this is mutually beneficial, it is more worthwhile. 

Use Your Voice

It goes without saying that when you are performing phone sex, your voice is your major tool. Lower the octave of your voice a bit so that you sound sexier and breathier, and using a softer voice is also a good rule to follow. If you are practically whispering, your lover will need to lean into his phone to hear you better, and this will be a more intimate experience. Make sure to go slowly and savor all the good parts, so that you can get the most out of the experience. 

Paint the Picture

Since all you have are your words, you really need to paint the picture of what you want to do with your partner. And don’t skimp. Take things slowly and really build up the process. Make sure you talk your partner through the undressing, explain exactly where and how you want to touch him, set the scene for how hot the room is getting or how slippery your hands are on him. Getting all the senses involved while telling your story will definitely lead to a more momentous outcome. Although you may feel uncomfortable at first the more you practice, the easier this will become. 

Stay a While

Once you have reached a climax together, don’t forget to stay awhile. Even if you are not together, there is still time and need for pillow talk, and the intimacy that can only come from physical release together. This will bring you closer together in the ways you cannot predict, and can lead to intimacy as you share your thoughts. 

In the new year, make it a point to try some of these new phone sex techniques. There is no doubt that your partner will thank you and be impressed with the whole new you!!