This one is for the straight ladies and the gay men! If your special someone is not going to be around for the holidays, or if you are in a long-distance relationship, this can be a real bummer. We all want to have that special someone around for the holidays. There is just something about snuggling up in front of a fire during this special time of year. But if you cannot be physically present together, you can still enjoy each other with some phone sex, which will give you the intimacy you crave even if you are far away from each other.
Get Comfortable Together
When you get on the phone with your partner, you should first take some time to “slip into something more comfortable.” Depending on your comfort level and style of communication, you might want to talk each other through undressing, or you might just tell your partner what you are taking off or what slinky nightgown you are putting on. This conversation will go a long way in heating you up for phone sex.
Light His Fire
Once you start heating up, it is time to light his fire, and the slower the better. Start with some slow sultry kiss talk which moves down the length of his body, and take it from there. Ask him what he needs to have touched with your feather-light kisses, or what parts of his body need to be stroked. Things have a way of taking off from there. Talking him through a climax and hearing it build based on what you say is a great gift as well for both of you!
Wrap Yourself Up
During the holidays, you become the gift, and you can have your partner talk through unwrapping you. Make sure you take it slow in a very teasing and seductive tone. Ask for what you want, tell him where to touch you, and make sure you reward him with some serious moans and a strong climax. When you make him feel like a man, this will be the best gift of all.
Stay for the Cuddling
At the holidays, more than ever, you don’t just climax and run. Make sure you stay for the cuddling at the end and some sweet pillow talk together. After all of the mayhem of jobs and holiday stress, this might be the best part of your week! So make it last! This will strengthen your connection and help you look forward to the next time, which will hopefully be in person.
If you can not be with the one you love this holiday season, make the best of it with some dynamite phone sex. And even if you’re single, there are plenty of fun erotic phone sex lines that you can try for free! When you appreciate the gift of each other, even if you are far away, then this will be the best holiday yet!