Although you might not have ever thought of it, if you want to really enjoy phone sex, and ensure that your partner on the other end of the line does as well, you need to do a few special things to prepare for it. Just like anything else, a little prep goes a long way in increasing your interest and enjoyment. Read on to find out how to get ready for a scintillating time!
Take Care of Technicalities
The first thing you should do is take care of the technicalities of having phone sex. This means, of course, that you have a fully charged phone. Nothing would be worse than having your phone die right in the middle of the fun! Secondly, a pair of headphones is a good idea. Not only does it make things more intimate, but then no one else can hear what your partner is saying. Also, make sure that your phone is not connected to Bluetooth. Having your private conversation and session broadcast over a speaker would definitely put a damper on things! And finally, know who you want to call. I know, DUH right? But if you’re not talking to someone you already know and instead calling a phone sex number, you’re going to want to make sure it’s a good one!
Find a Private Location
Although it probably goes without saying, you need to find a private setting where you can sit or lay and enjoy phone sex with your partner. There are two things to consider, both comfort and privacy. This is especially true if phone sex makes you nervous. Make sure that you can lay or stretch out in a way that makes you feel amazing to start with, and make sure that no one else can barge in on you while you enjoy yourself.
Get Yourself Dressed
When you are going to have phone sex, it definitely is a good idea to set the mood. Dress yourself (or undress yourself) carefully. The sexier you feel, the better you will be able to enjoy your time. Whether you want to wear a sexy nightgown or another comfortable outfit or lounge around in your birthday suit, make sure that YOU feel comfortable. Finally, set yourself up with any lube or sex toys you might need for when the time comes. Having everything handy will make the whole experience more enjoyable.
Prime the Pump
Lastly, you might want to get off before they get off, so if you think you would be more sensual and fun if you have an orgasm before your phone call, by all means do so! Of course you might want to wait for the main event, but each person is different so do what is best for you. The more you get to know yourself and become comfortable, the more dynamic the entire encounter will be.