There is a cloud of mystery that surrounds the world of phone sex. While it is an unconventional method to release your sexual tension, it also brings with it a level of intrigue and creativity. If you’re someone who is constantly looking to try new things, phone sex will be an amazing experience for you. However, if you’re more introverted and conservative, you may shudder at the thought of speaking sexually to a stranger. While your apprehensions may be warranted, phone sex is actually an amazing way to step outside of your comfort zone. If you need help making the initial leap to sexual gratification, follow these simple steps.
Lose Yourself
One of the biggest advantages of using a phone sex service is your identity is completely hidden from your partner. If you’re on the shy side, this gives you an opportunity to become someone completely new. Reinvent yourself by creating an alter ego. This will not only increase the entertainment of the experience but will also help you to disassociate yourself from the situation. Don’t be afraid to go into detail. In addition to a new name, you can change your voice and the way you speak. You can give yourself an accent or put some extra base in your voice in order to convey more authority. The more work you put into crafting your new character, the less you’ll think about the “awkwardness” of making a phone sex call. Transform the experience from an anxiety inducing embarrassment to a test of your creative abilities.
Alcohol is your friend
If you’re generally a shy person and want to delve into the world of phone sex, alcohol is your best friend. Have a shot or two to help calm your nerves. There’s no need to worry about over indulging, you can conduct a phone sex call from the comfort of your own home. Of course, it’s always encouraged that you drink responsibly, but alcohol can work wonders on an overactive mind. Not only will it loosen you up before making the call, but it will also allow you to speak more freely with your partner while you’re having phone sex. If you’re naturally timid, a few drinks will help to remove the stigma and the bizarreness of talking dirty over the phone. It may even open up your creative flow and allow for you to slip into your new persona more easily. Remember, unlike physical sex, you are in complete control over your experience over the phone. If you start to feel uncomfortable or think you may have over drank, you can simply hang up the phone call. Just like that, it’s as if it never happened.
Don’t forget the sex part
At its core, phone sex’s primary purpose is to fulfill your sexual desires. Whether you’re extremely outgoing or more of an introverted homebody, we all have sexual needs. Before initiating a phone call, it’s important that you’re in an appropriate mood for sex. We highly recommend watching porn prior to the call. There is no greater stimulant than sex, and the right amount of sexual desire can turn even the shyest among us into the wildest of sexual beasts. Phone sex is typically pretty straightforward and to the point, you don’t begin the conversation with small talk. Being already sexually stimulated when you begin the conversation helps expedite the process.
It’s a team effort
Now that you’re riled up sexually, it’s important to remember that this is a two-party conversation. As much as you want your own sexual release, it’s common courtesy that you fulfill the needs of your partner as well. This is where the creative process comes back into play. Given that everything takes place verbally, you need to think outside of the box. Dirty jokes, sexual moaning and even your tone of voice will all assist your partner in reaching their climax. Remember, this is a completely anonymous act, so there’s no need to be shy or hold back. At this point, the combination of alcohol and sexual buildup should be overpowering any feeling of anxiety or worry.
Vulgarity is key
Don’t censor yourself during phone sex. This is one of the few occasions where you can get away with saying every dirty, raunchy thought that may cross your mind. You don’t have to worry about being embarrassed. Most likely, the raunchier you take the conversation, the more turned on your partner will be. Maybe there’s a dirty phrase that you’d be way too bashful to say to someone’s face. This is the perfect opportunity to test it out. You’d be surprised at how much using a phone sex service will boost your intimate physical relations as well. Having sex via telephone will boost your self-esteem and embolden your inner sexual being. Think of phone sex as being a complement to your sex life, not an opposition to it.
Enjoy it
At the end of the day, phone sex is meant to be a liberating sexual experience. You can plan for it as much as you want, but the best advice is to simply make the call. In fact, I would recommend phone sex to a shy person more so than I would someone who is more outgoing. Once you find your voice, having phone sex offers so many benefits that other sexual methods lack. It can be enjoyed without leaving your home. There’s no need for awkward small-talk or cheesy pick-up lines. It’s just you, your partner, and your imagination. Remember to enjoy the experience. Pleasure yourself, surrender yourself to the sexual release. Sex, in general, is an awkward experience, whether it be on the phone or in real life. There’s no need to be shy about it or fear it. It’s meant to be enjoyed. Don’t lose sight of that fact, and don’t ruin it by overthinking. Allow your alter ego to thrive and find your sexual voice. And above all else, have fun.