Weird But Helpful Phone Sex Tips

Take it from me, a professional… there’s no straightforward path or formula to having fantastic phone sex. A lot of the good vibes need to already be flowing between you and your partner. But don’t feel overly concerned if the phone sex isn’t taking off immediately. It might take a couple of practice runs to really get in the groove. Couples also make the mistake of diving head-first into phone sex without prepping themselves in any way. While there isn’t a set formula, there are things you ought to be doing to prepare. You can find those tips in my handy Phone Sex Guide. There are some less popular ways to increases your chances of acing phone sex with your significant other that aren’t necessarily in that master list of tips. I’m going to share with you some of the weird but helpful ways you can improve your phone sex life. If you feel like you’ve tried everything, take a look at these less conventional tips to see if they work for you!

 

Dance around the room naked before the call

The key to phone sex success is confidence baby! You need to feel sound both in your mind and your body before you get into any type of dirty talk with a partner. Your confidence, by the way, will also inspire confidence in your significant other. A great confidence-boosting exercise that is sexual and fulfilling is doing a little naked dance. Shake out all those pre-phone sex jitters that are holding you back from baring it all over the phone. Dancing around naked is a physical way to shake the nerves from your person, but it’s also very mental. Own your space, put on some Fleetwood Mac, and shimmy your way into good phone sex!

 

C B Freakin’ D

Natures anxiety remedy! I have always been a big fan of natural remedies for stress and nerves. It doesn’t have to be CBD necessarily. You can use a bunch of different stress-relieving techniques to get into a phone sex mindset. Set yourself up for success by taking a warm bath, meditating, or having a nice cold beer. The point I’m making is that a relaxed mind is the best kind of mind for phone sex. Declutter that brain of yours before you jump into the phone-sheets. You don’t want any daytime worries to intrude on your phone sex experience.

 

Talk to yourself

This is where I am going to lose some readers – I just know it! But let me tell you why talking to yourself is a phenomenal way to prepare for a phone sex call. By talk to yourself I don’t mean in the Girl, Interrupted way. I mean that you should talk dirty to yourself. People are very afraid of dirty words. It’s probably because we’ve been brainwashed by the world to think dirty words exist in the first place! There are kinky words – sure. There are even bad words that we should never say. But dirty words? Those don’t really exist. And kinky words don’t fall under the “bad words” category. Get used to having kinky words exist on your tongue by saying them to yourself. This works best if you say them out loud. Describe, to yourself, what your kinkiest fantasy looks like. This will help you master the art of kinky speak.

 

Listen to sample phone sex calls

There are sources all over the world wide web which provide you with sample phone sex calls. Listening to others have phone sex is a really cool, voyeuristic experience. It also helps normalized phone sex. And it gives you a frame-of-reference to work with. Couples who have never had phone sex before can tend to treat it like wild, unexplored terrain. But phone sex isn’t another planet. It is something that happens between two average joes all the time. It’s completely normal and should feel familiar. Imagine taking a vacation to a place you’ve never even seen a photo of before. That sounds kind of scary, doesn’t it? Once you can see the photo, you give yourself a reference point. That’s what listening in on phone sex calls does for you as well.

 

Now that you have four weird things to try, you better get started. Pick one of these tips (the one you are most comfortable with) and start there! Do your phone sex homework because practice serves you tremendously with new sex experiences. Show your partner these exercises too. If you both are simultaneously working on your skills, they are bound to improve for you as a unit!