Sometimes, there are fantasies that we all have that we wouldn’t want to actually partake in. That is more than okay! There are ways to work around this and still get what you came for. You don’t have to actually engage in certain sexual acts to be able to enjoy them; this is where the wonders of phone sex come into play. It’s time to round up your phone sex buddy and tell them that you have some sexual fantasies that need fulfilling. Below, we have listed some of the fantasies that you might want to use that phone to try out before trying them in person, (or not trying them at all, because, after all, they are not exactly SFL, (safe for life)).
Body… um, liquids
If you have ever wondered or longed for a day in which you can engage in some consensual acts that involve certain bodily secretions that don’t usually come out involuntarily during sexy time, (aka something you might dispose of in the bathroom), using phone sex to delve deep into those fantasies is the perfect way for you to get what you came for safely. This is also a great way to bring the subject up with your partner of engaging in some piss play next time you see one another. You can gauge how they feel about it and how open they are to it by their reaction when you’re talking on the phone. Remember not to ever let anybody shame you for your kinks. The fact that you are even here shows us that you are ready to let your freak flag fly.
Bang Gang
You might have a fantasy that involved more than one person….or a hell of a lot more than just one person. If you have the need to have a gang bang sesh but don’t actually want to do it in person, (perhaps because you are in a committed relationship, want to stay very safe etc,) getting your phone sex lover to oblige you might fill you up just enough to keep you from doing something wreckless….and fun…..in person. There is no harm in letting your mind go there and having a little help from your phone sex partner.
Impersonal and Public
I think the majority of us can agree that we have at least had one or two fantasies where we were having some fun out in public and someone caught us. Reap all of the benefits of having sex in public without any of the risk by deciding to fantasize about this via a phone sex convo. Let your partner help transport you to a place in which you are really in that back alleyway getting down and dirty, or in that bathroom stall while security is slamming on the door telling you you’re being kicked out. Take this fantasy to the next level by pretending you just met the person you are having sex with and have barely said one word to one another. Make it as impersonal and as public as ever and get ready to have one big O.
Rough and Red
If BDSM piques your interest but you don’t feel comfortable engaging in these acts in person, or simply don’t want to actually go there in person, then using phone sex as a way to play around in this new world is the perfect thing for you to do. Regardless of whether you are looking to be the sadist or the masochist, make sure you talk to your phone sex partner about it beforehand as some phrasing can be very triggering when playing around with role-playing. As long as you make sure everything is consensual, we say go for it! Really, really go for it. There is no too far. Everything is make-believe and you two are in charge, so go crazy.