The Exhibitionist Fantasy… And Phone Sex

I’ve said it a million times, but phone sex is a great way to explore fantasies in a way that is safe! Phone sex operators are trained in bringing those fantasies to light, but the beauty in that is that they are performed all over the phone! That means that it’s between you and your phone sex operator, making it your own personal experience. One of these fantasies is an exhibitionist fantasy. I am going to explain to you exactly what that means, and why phone sex is the perfect way to express it! If you are wondering what exhibitionism is all about, you’ve come to the right place. Check out my article that answers all of your questions!

 

What is exhibitionism?

Exhibitionism is a sexual fetish related to exposing yourself sexually in public. Most definitions will say that it’s the desire to expose one’s genitals to non-consenting strangers. However, I believe that you are speaking more of playful exhibitionism, which leans more towards having sex in public places knowing that there is an ability to be seen or get caught. An exhibitionist might enjoy having sex in public. If they just like the idea that they could get caught, this could be a public restroom or in a park somewhere. Some exhibitionists need to be caught, and they’ll have sex in the back of a taxi. In my opinion, the safest way to be an exhibitionist is inside your own home leaving your blinds open while you engage in private acts. If they live alone, they might enjoy masturbating with the blinds open.

 

Is it the same as voyeurism? 

Voyeurism is a sexual gratification by secretly peeping on others. It’s arousal by spying on others as they engage in private acts. The terms relate because an exhibitionist is someone who would be sexually turned on by knowing they’ve got a voyeur. However, the voyeur would likely feel more turned on if the person they were watching wasn’t an exhibitionist and more private. Of course, sexuality in all capacities is a spectrum so it’s not always that black and white. But, an exhibitionist stranger might interact with a voyeuristic stranger if they live in neighboring apartment buildings. An exhibitionist is more likely to keep their blinds open while engaging in changing, masturbation, or sex. Likewise, a voyeur is likely to be watching for such activities through people’s windows. This is how those two might interact on a basic level. 

 

Why is it a great phone sex activity?

All kinks between consenting adults is worth exploring; however, exhibitionism is one of the trickier sexual fetishes to execute without getting non-consenting people involved. It’s worth noting that exposing yourself to unsuspecting strangers is not ok. However, what you do in. your own home is. Be wary of the feelings of others if you engage in heavy PDA or decide to have sex in a public space. Don’t leave your blinds open while engaging in private acts if you live in a family-friendly neighborhood. That’s why phone sex is a nice way to engage in an exhibitionist fantasy. You can discuss with your phone sex operator what you want to happen in your fantasy. Perhaps you can include them in a way that is voyeuristic. There are plenty of ways in which the phone can make this a safe and fun fantasy to explore. Plus, if you want to enhance your phone sex exhibitionist fantasy, you can always film yourself masturbating while having the phone sex as a way to ‘show’ yourself to the world. Performing for the camera might really turn you on! You can have your phone sex operator act like she’s just walked in on you. Fantasy is all about the element of play and roleplay. And, you’ll be able to relax knowing that you won’t actually be offending anyone by living out this fantasy of yours in the privacy of your own home with a professional phone sex operator who can’t wait to help you live out all of the nasty details that you love to think about! 

What are other safe ways in which someone can explore an exhibitionist fantasy?

When I meet couples who want to engage in exhibitionism, I encourage them to occasionally leave their doors open when they are doing private things, like going to the restroom, taking a shower, or masturbating. It’s a way for them to show their partner what they love to do, while simultaneously allowing themselves the turn-on of potentially getting caught. You can also wear clothing in public with no underwear, as long as you are covered. There’s something very liberating and tantalizing about wearing a dress with no panties. And, while nobody knows, there’s always the potential for a gust of wind to expose someone! Or, like I said, you can try being your own voyeur to your exhibitionist fantasy by watching yourself naked in the mirror or performing for a camera. Who knows, maybe the next person you become intimate with will love your exhibitionist side and want to see you on camera performing! It’s a nice keepsake for the future and a safe way to live out your fantasy in a healthy and positive way.