Phone Sex Is More Than Dirty Talk

There’s something that doesn’t get talked about enough – sex! Ok, you might be thinking that the world talks about sex all the time but it always feels like this distant thing that’s not really part of us, as if we’re talking about it in third person or talking about someone else. But part of being a human being is valuing sex and connection. Now that technology has taken up such a large space in our lives too, it’s only natural that sex and the phone would merge into one idea. Now, when we think of sex, we think of calling up someone we know, texting a hookup, and (of course) phone sex conversations.

So why aren’t we talking more about how phone sex affects us as a whole? There are potentially some old school thinkers out there who think calling a phone sex line is bad news. That it’s unhealthy or something to call a phone sex line for some casual dirty talk. If you know me at all, you know that I have a problem with that. Calling a phone sex line has so many fantastic benefits that are worth noting! So next time someone tries to shame you for calling a phone sex number, let them know about these benefits to phone sex:

Helps you become more comfortable sexually: YES! Human beings have sex. It’s part of what makes us human. But still so many of us are uncomfortable around the idea. So uncomfortable actually that we don’t even let ourselves enjoy sex. As you’d see a therapist to talk through things in your life that might be uncomfortable, phone sex helps you get used to discussing what turns you on. The more you say out lout what you like in bed, your fantasies, what you want, and how it makes you feel, the more pleasure you’ll get out of the real sex encounters because you won’t feel ashamed! When you call a sex number or erotic line, the person on the other end is not going to judge you. This will validate your sexual experience as a whole and put you on the path to sexual success!

Makes you a better partner: Now, this is quite controversial, but I would argue that calling a phone sex line or having phone sex with your partner actually makes you a better partner yourself. Not only does it help you understand yourself sexually, but it sharpens your communication and listening skills. These are the two most important elements in any relationship! During phone sex with a partner, you are quite literally asking them what they like and sharing what you like. It will make your connection stronger and open you up to your partner in ways you haven’t discovered in the past!

So next time anyone tries to rain on your phone sex parade, remind them kindly that phone sex is so much more than dirty talk. It’s something to be grateful for and a fantastic tool at our disposal to help us grow as human beings!